The Archetypes of Scripture: The Sword Shall Not Depart

A Long but Necessary Introduction

From the beginning, my goal for the Archetypes of Scripture series has been to expand my (and my readers) understanding of tropes and archetypes while also exploring the various stories found in Sacred Scripture. While I’m not using this series to evangelize, I know that its impossible to speak about Christ without it coming off that way.

Further baggage is added when I expound upon my denomination. I consider myself ecumenical and I want this series to appeal to a wide variety of readers. So, while I’m not going to stop explaining the tenants of the Christian Faith, I hope that readers are willing to enter into the Scriptures as a story.      

Sometimes, I’m not always sure I know what I mean when I say “story,” especially in light of the Bible.

As I’ve said before, the Bible is really a library featuring poetry, history, prophecy, and even primitive creative fiction. But from the Christian position, all the stories, no matter how short and seemingly insignificant, point to a wider, over-arching narrative.

This narrative points upward, towards God and man’s struggle to reach Him. One of the main villains is man himself, who lives in the mucky waters of Original Sin and wrestles with God. The wrestling seems to have no end, until God throws the match and comes down to struggle with us. Standing shoulder-to-shoulder with Creation, He defeats death once and for all.

In that way, all the stories point to Christ. But to make that point, they sometimes point backwards—away from Christ.

When I think about the various linchpin tropes of Sacred Scripture, I think of Adam, Original Sin, and the New Adam.

Original Sin should not be confused with Total Depravity, which, I believe, is what most non-Christians believe all Christian believe. I’ve also seen that a lot of people believe that it has something to do with sex, which is wildly incorrect.

The original sin of Adam was disobedience to God. The Lord forbad Adam from eating the fruit of the tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil.

Worse still, after directly disobeying God, Adam blames Eve for his faults—the first in humanity’s long and proud tradition of blaming each other for our personal short comings.

Its by the disobedience of Adam that sin enters the world and stains all his children [read: the human race]. This sin is the deprivation of the original holiness and justice intended for humanity. Human nature, states the Catechism of the Catholic Church, is “not totally corrupted: it is wounded” with an inclination to do evil. [CCC 405]. This sentiment is clearly stated by Saint Paul in Romans:

I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot do what is good. 19 For I do not do the good I desire; rather, it is the evil I do not desire that I end up doing. 20 Now if I do what I do not desire, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me.

[New Catholic Bible, Romans 7:18-20]

Long after the fall, in another garden, Jesus would ask his Father that the cup depart from him, but not if it meant disobeying his Father’s will. It is the Sin of Adam that brings—into sharp contrast—the Obedience of Jesus.

The sin of our father covered us, until the innocence of another washed it away. 

This 500-word preamble, was to introduce us to the trope: the sins of the father.

The Sword will not Depart

Of all the millions of misquotations and misunderstanding between Christian sects, non-Christians, and atheists, the sins of the father is probably high in the running. So, here is the original verse:

I the Lord your God am a jealous God, punishing children for the iniquity of parents, to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me, but showing steadfast love to the thousandth generation[a] of those who love me and keep my commandments.

[New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition, NRSV-CE, Exodus 20:5-6]

In this verse, the Lord is speaking about idolatry, which is to love anything more than God. We all worship something—for most of us, that thing is the self.

For David, for one moment, that thing was his lust. David would throw himself at the feet of this idol and in a singular act of worship to it, subject his family to the consequences of sin.

It happened, late one afternoon, when David rose from his couch and was walking about on the roof of the king’s house, that he saw from the roof a woman bathing; the woman was very beautiful. David sent someone to inquire about the woman. It was reported, “This is Bathsheba daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite.” So David sent messengers to get her, and she came to him, and he lay with her. (Now she was purifying herself after her period.) Then she returned to her house. The woman conceived; and she sent and told David, “I am pregnant.”

[NRSV-CE, 2 Samuel 11:2-5]

I don’t need to expound upon the pain and anguish adultery causes in a family, in David’s case, his family won’t feel the effects until later. For Bathsheba and Uriah, the effects are immediate.

We get no word on the willingness or unwillingness of Bathsheba. On my part, I will not brand Bathsheba a temptress, nor will I call David a rapist. But when the king wants you, what are you to say to that? Denying him would insult him, maybe even risk your husband’s life. But to go along defiles you and your marriage vows. Or, perhaps the text is more subtle. Perhaps Bathsheba, having purified herself after her menstrual cycle, believed she would not conceive so soon after it, and went to David to further her husband’s career or even her own standing.

Regardless of Bathsheba’s desires, David is the key figure and he’s on a collision course with evil. David sends for Bathsheba’s husband, Uriah, who is fighting with Joab and David’s other servants, against the Ammonites. Uriah returns to Jerusalem and David tries to convince him to sleep with Bathsheba in order fleece Uriah into thinking the child is his.

But Uriah, following the tenant of the law (1 Samuel 21:4-5), does not sleep with his wife while David’s kingdom is at war. Uriah says:

“The ark and Israel and Judah remain in booths [tents];[a] and my lord Joab and the servants of my lord are camping in the open field; shall I then go to my house, to eat and to drink, and to lie with my wife? As you live, and as your soul lives, I will not do such a thing.”

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 11:11]    

David then commands Uriah to stay with him another day. David feasts him, getting him drunk, but still, Uriah will not return to his house and sleep with Bathsheba.

Desperate, David compounds one sin with another and orders Joab, his commander, to place Uriah on the front lines and abandoned him, ensuring he is killed in the fighting.

15 In the letter he wrote, “Set Uriah in the forefront of the hardest fighting, and then draw back from him, so that he may be struck down and die.” 16 As Joab was besieging the city, he assigned Uriah to the place where he knew there were valiant warriors. 17 The men of the city came out and fought with Joab; and some of the servants of David among the people fell. Uriah the Hittite was killed as well.

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 11:15-17]

Joab, decidedly uncertain about how David will react to the news of Uriah’s death, instructs his messenger to tell David everything about the battle and decern his mood before he tells of Uriah’s death.

In a piece of brilliant, delicious biblical foreshadowing, David tells the messenger: 

25 David said to the messenger, “Thus you shall say to Joab, ‘Do not let this matter trouble you, for the sword devours now one and now another; press your attack on the city, and overthrow it.’ And encourage him.”

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 11:25]

The sword, indeed, devours. Very soon, that sword will come for David’s house.

Bathsheba mourns her husband’s death and when that customary mourning period is over, David marries her and brings her into his household. But, “the thing David had done displeased the Lord.”

The Lord sends his prophet, Nathan. The Prophet tells David a story:

 “There were two men in a certain city, the one rich and the other poor. The rich man had very many flocks and herds; but the poor man had nothing but one little ewe lamb, which he had bought. He brought it up, and it grew up with him and with his children; it used to eat of his meager fare, and drink from his cup, and lie in his bosom, and it was like a daughter to him. Now there came a traveler to the rich man, and he was loath to take one of his own flock or herd to prepare for the wayfarer who had come to him, but he took the poor man’s lamb, and prepared that for the guest who had come to him.”

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 12:1-4]

David, a just and honorable king, is understandably horrified that such thievery is going on in his kingdom. He demands to know who has committed such an offense. Nathan, then, drops the mic: 

Nathan said to David, “You are the man! Thus says the Lord, the God of Israel: I anointed you king over Israel, and I rescued you from the hand of Saul; I gave you your master’s house, and your master’s wives into your bosom, and gave you the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would have added as much more. Why have you despised the word of the Lord, to do what is evil in his sight? You have struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword, and have taken his wife to be your wife, and have killed him with the sword of the Ammonites. 10 Now therefore the sword shall never depart from your house, for you have despised me, and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife. 

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 12:7-10]

The sins of the father shall be visited upon the children. David has sown chaos in his house and his family will reap this bitter harvest until the Stump of Jesse sprouts again.

To David’s credit, he repents immediately. The Lord puts away his sin, but the wheels of cause and effect are already turning. Evil is a consequence of sin. David sinned, and that insult was against God, but God is hardly the only victim. Uriah, Bathsheba, the unborn child, David’s other children—are all effected by David’s sin. 

The sword will not depart, Nathan said, and it doesn’t. Although the marriage to Bathsheba eventually produces Solomon, a wiser, but as equally flawed a king as David, proves that God can bring good out of evil. The real horror of David’s story begins when Amnon, his son by a different wife, rapes his half-sister, Tamar.

Tamar is Absolom’s sister, she is described as beautiful, and a virgin.

Amnon was so tormented that he made himself ill because of his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin and it seemed impossible to Amnon to do anything to her. 

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 13:2]

On the advice of his friend, Amnon uses trickery to bring Tamar close enough to misuse her. He pretends to be ill and asks his father to send Tamar to tend to him. Believing her brother is sick, Tamar makes food for him which Amnon refuses to eat, except from out of Tamar’s hands. He sends all his attendants, except Tamar, out of his chambers. Being a good sister, Tamar comes forward to Amnon’s bed.  

11 But when she brought them [the cakes] near him to eat, he took hold of her, and said to her, “Come, lie with me, my sister.” 12 She answered him, “No, my brother, do not force me; for such a thing is not done in Israel; do not do anything so vile! 13 As for me, where could I carry my shame? And as for you, you would be as one of the scoundrels in Israel. Now therefore, I beg you, speak to the king; for he will not withhold me from you.” 14 But he would not listen to her; and being stronger than she, he forced her and lay with her.

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 13:11-14]

And so, the sword devours another.

Like every sexual predator, Amnon wasn’t “in love” with Tamar, he was worshiping himself and his lust. Amnon, like David, made an idol of his desires. He took what he wanted for no other reason but he wanted to.

Amnon took Tamar, like an object, and used her. He was even “seized with a very great loathing for her; indeed, his loathing was even greater than the lust he had felt for her” and he throws her out of his house, refusing to make a wife of her after ruining her chances of finding a husband (2 Samuel 13:15).

Absolom, Tamar’s direct brother, brings her into his house. He tells her to keep her peace because Amnon is her brother. This is harsh by our modern sensibilities, but the next verse, I think, explains why Absolom told his sister to keep silent about the rape:

 21 When King David heard of all these things, he became very angry, but he would not punish his son Amnon, because he loved him, for he was his firstborn.[d] 

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 13:21]

I doubt Absolom has confidence in David’s sense of justice. After all, his father wasn’t above destroying Uriah’s family in order to gain Bathsheba. Like father, like son, right? 

Here we see the true consequence of David’s sin. He has been rendered ineffective. Absolom doesn’t believe David is a good and just king, and David proves that correct. Despite knowing the wrong that happened in his house, David does nothing against Amnon.

Denied official channels, Absolom takes matters into his own hands. He waits for two years before taking his vengeance. Absolom invites all his brothers to a party in the countryside and he orders his servants to watch Amnon. When Amnon is drunk, Absolom and his servant strike, killing Amnon and causing the other brothers to flee.

Word reaches David that Absolom has killed all his brother (David’s sons). David tears at his garments and weeps until the truth is learned that Amnon alone is dead. Still, Absolom flees to Talmai, in Geshur. He will stay there three years.

Although David misses Absolom, he does not call his son back from Talmai. David is still trying to hold onto that veneer of justice. Bringing his murder son back would show to all Israel that he has lost his way.

Enter Joab, the son of Zeruiah. As a character, he has the flavor of a political upstart and I can’t help imagine him scheming in the backrooms of the palace seeking ways to ingratiate himself into David’s good-graces.

Regardless, Joab perceives that David misses Absolom, so he goes out and finds a wisewoman to petition David:

When the woman of Tekoa came to the king, she fell on her face to the ground and did obeisance, and said, “Help, O king!” The king asked her, “What is your trouble?” She answered, “Alas, I am a widow; my husband is dead. Your servant had two sons, and they fought with one another in the field; there was no one to part them, and one struck the other and killed him. Now the whole family has risen against your servant. They say, ‘Give up the man who struck his brother, so that we may kill him for the life of his brother whom he murdered, even if we destroy the heir as well.’ Thus they would quench my one remaining ember, and leave to my husband neither name nor remnant on the face of the earth.”

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 14:4-7]

David tells the woman to return to her home, that no harm will come to her, and he will not allow anyone to harm one hair on the head of her son.

Like the story of Nathan above, David, again, convicts himself. The woman says as much:

13 The woman said, “Why then have you planned such a thing against the people of God? For in giving this decision the king convicts himself, inasmuch as the king does not bring his banished one home again. 14 We must all die; we are like water spilled on the ground, which cannot be gathered up. But God will not take away a life; he will devise plans so as not to keep an outcast banished forever from his presence.[a] 

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 14:13-14]

God forgives, and so David should forgive.

If we’re honest, we can admit that Absolom’s murder of Amnon is justifiable. Amnon’s offense was public knowledge as Amnon ordered his servants “put her [Tamar] out” and “bolt the door after her.” She then covered herself in ashes and went about weeping.

The fault lies with David, who, as a just and righteous king, should have dealt with Amnon accordingly. That failure wrecked his, albiet, not great, relationship with Absolom. 

Still trying to hold onto that veneer of justice and impartiality, David commands Joab to bring Absolom back to Jerusalem, but he will not allow Absolom back into his kingly presence. Perhaps, if David had welcomed Absolom back into his bosom, things could have been different.

David is a prefigure of Christ, but he is not the Christ. And this episode proves that simple fact, definitively. The king forgives Absolom, his subject, and lets him come home, but David does not forgive his son and does not let him come home.

A just king, David might be, but a just father? I have my doubts.

I desire to do good, said Saint Paul, but I can’t do good. Like many stories in the Old Testament, I feel that sentiment in the story of David and Absolom. Sin, miscommunication, misunderstandings, and partial forgiveness—all part of the tragedy of Original Sin, the sin of our first father.

Absolom lives in Jerusalem for two years without seeing his father. He sends for Joab, hoping to be let in to see the king, but Joab ignores him. He sends for a second time, and still gets no answer. Fed up, Absolom orders his servants to set Joab’s barley field on fire.

Roused at last, Joab goes to Absolom to ask why he set fire to his land.

32 Absalom answered Joab, “Look, I sent word to you: Come here, that I may send you to the king with the question, ‘Why have I come from Geshur? It would be better for me to be there still.’ Now let me go into the king’s presence; if there is guilt in me, let him kill me!” 33 Then Joab went to the king and told him; and he summoned Absalom. So he came to the king and prostrated himself with his face to the ground before the king; and the king kissed Absalom.

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 14:32-33]

Forgiveness, great! We may think, but two years is a long time to build resentment. And, let’s not forget the last time Absolom waited two years.

Back in his father’s good graces, Absolom hires a chariot and 50 servants, and he begins to rise early in the morning in order to stand by the gate and so that when a man came to petition justice from David, he could intercept them.

Absalom would call out and say, “From what city are you?” When the person said, “Your servant is of such and such a tribe in Israel,” Absalom would say, “See, your claims are good and right; but there is no one deputed by the king to hear you.” Absalom said moreover, “If only I were judge in the land! Then all who had a suit or cause might come to me, and I would give them justice.” Whenever people came near to do obeisance to him, he would put out his hand and take hold of them, and kiss them. Thus Absalom did to every Israelite who came to the king for judgment; so Absalom stole the hearts of the people of Israel.

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 15:2-6]

Absolom follows that old trope: revenge is a dish best served cold.

After four years of this, Absolom goes to David (who doesn’t appear to have any idea of what’s going on) and begs the King to let him go to Hebron to fulfil a vow he made to the Lord while in Geshur. David, of course, lets him go.

With his father’s permission to depart, Absolom then sends out secret messengers to the Tribes of Israel telling them that “at the sound of trumpets” they should shout “Absolom is king at Hebron” (2 Samuel 15:10).

The conspiracy grew under David’s nose. Until word reaches Jerusalem.

13 A messenger came to David, saying, “The hearts of the Israelites have gone after Absalom.” 14 Then David said to all his officials who were with him at Jerusalem, “Get up! Let us flee, or there will be no escape for us from Absalom. Hurry, or he will soon overtake us, and bring disaster down upon us, and attack the city with the edge of the sword.”

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 15:13-14]

David and his household flee Jerusalem. David leaves behind his concubines to look after his house. Confident in the Lord, he intends to return. He’s so confident, in fact, he tells the Levites to leave the Ark of the Covenant in Jerusalem, saying “If find favor in the eyes of the Lord, he will bring me back and let me see both it and the place where it stays” (2 Samuel 15:25).

In the wilderness, at the ascent of the Mount of Olives, David prays to the Lord, asking him to turn the advice of the counselor, Ahithophel, who betrayed him, into foolishness.

David is reeling from this betrayal. The conspiracy is so widespread that David and his supporters are so outnumbered that defending Jerusalem becomes impossible and they must flee and roam the countryside. He sends a spy, Hushai, to Absolom’s court in Jerusalem, but David must ultimately rely on the Lord.

Even while on the road, David is cursed by his subjects. When his servants ask to slay those who speak ill of the king, David utters:

11 David said to Abishai and to all his servants, “My own son seeks my life; how much more now may this Benjaminite! Let him alone, and let him curse; for the Lord has bidden him. 12 It may be that the Lord will look on my distress,[c] and the Lord will repay me with good for this cursing of me today.”

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 16:11-12]

While David camps on the banks of the Jordan River, Absolom enters Jerusalem and seeks the guidance of his father’s former advisor, Ahithophel. 

20 Then Absalom said to Ahithophel, “Give us your counsel; what shall we do?” 21 Ahithophel said to Absalom, “Go in to your father’s concubines, the ones he has left to look after the house; and all Israel will hear that you have made yourself odious to your father, and the hands of all who are with you will be strengthened.” 22 So they pitched a tent for Absalom upon the roof; and Absalom went in to his father’s concubines in the sight of all Israel. 23 Now in those days the counsel that Ahithophel gave was as if one consulted the oracle[f] of God; so all the counsel of Ahithophel was esteemed, both by David and by Absalom.

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 16:20-23]

And there Nathan’s prophecy is fulfilled: “for you did it secretly; but I will do this thing before all Israel, and before the sun.”

This is an absolute humiliation for David. Absolom is basically saying “I’ve replaced you utterly.” He has taken over David’s house, taken his women, used them as David would use them. The line is drawn, Absolom will take all that David has.

Absolom calls for further council and is convinced by Hushai, David’s spy, to pursue David personally. Hushai then sends word to David so that he might escape. David and his supporters cross the Jordan river and at daybreak, Absolom and his army follow.

David appoints commanders, but intends to go out and fight with his men. His commanders disapprove and tell the king that he worth ten-thousands men. Convinced by their words, David takes shelter in a nearby city, but he implores his commanders:

The king ordered Joab and Abishai and Ittai, saying, “Deal gently for my sake with the young man Absalom.” And all the people heard when the king gave orders to all the commanders concerning Absalom.

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 18:5]

The battle commences, with David’s mighty men slaying the men of Israel.

So the army went out into the field against Israel; and the battle was fought in the forest of Ephraim. The men of Israel were defeated there by the servants of David, and the slaughter there was great on that day, twenty thousand men. The battle spread over the face of all the country; and the forest claimed more victims that day than the sword.

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 18:6-8]

But the sword David was warned of so long ago comes down again. Despite his pleas, Joab is fed up with the infighting. He sees Absolom, who’s long, beautiful hair has been caught in a tree, he is trapped and helpless.

Absalom happened to meet the servants of David. Absalom was riding on his mule, and the mule went under the thick branches of a great oak. His head caught fast in the oak, and he was left hanging[c] between heaven and earth, while the mule that was under him went on. 10 A man saw it, and told Joab, “I saw Absalom hanging in an oak.” 11 Joab said to the man who told him, “What, you saw him! Why then did you not strike him there to the ground? I would have been glad to give you ten pieces of silver and a belt.” 12 But the man said to Joab, “Even if I felt in my hand the weight of a thousand pieces of silver, I would not raise my hand against the king’s son; for in our hearing the king commanded you and Abishai and Ittai, saying: For my sake protect the young man Absalom! 13 On the other hand, if I had dealt treacherously against his life[d] (and there is nothing hidden from the king), then you yourself would have stood aloof.” 14 Joab said, “I will not waste time like this with you.” He took three spears in his hand, and thrust them into the heart of Absalom, while he was still alive in the oak. 15 And ten young men, Joab’s armor-bearers, surrounded Absalom and struck him, and killed him.

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 18:9-15]

In a sad, but perhaps fitting, twist of fate, Absolom had no sons. His only achievement was a monument he built, now called Absolom’s Monument. All of his vengeance-seeking was in vain, it left no lasting mark, except for his father’s cry of anguish: my son, my son!

32 The king said to the Cushite, “Is it well with the young man Absalom?” The Cushite answered, “May the enemies of my lord the king, and all who rise up to do you harm, be like that young man.”

33 [g] The king was deeply moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept; and as he went, he said, “O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! Would I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!”

[NRSV-CE 2 Samuel 18:32-33]

There will be more blood and sorrow for David. His old age will be a time of war. The sins of the father are visited upon the son; all that war will make a time of peace and plenty for the reign of his son, Solomon.

Cause and Effect

Throughout this long essay I’ve been using the saying “the sins of the father” but perhaps a more contemporary way to put it is the simple phrase: cause and effect of narrative. Character A does action x, which sets off a reaction in Character B, who does y in return. These actions radiate outward, swallowing up more characters and actions pushing and pulling the story onward.

Conflict is the meat and potatoes of narrative. One may even say that there is no story without conflict.  

These episodes in David’s life are sometimes seen as separate events, but I think I’ve made it clear that the story of David and Bathsheba is merely the first act in a three-act story that culminates in Absolom’s usurpation.

It is commonly misunderstood that God punishes the children for the sins of their parents, this blood-curse is misguided. God did not punish Absolom, he punished David. Or rather, David’s actions—which cannot be put away—rippled through his family like a stone into a still pond.

This does not free Absolom from his actions. I understand his resentment, I think we all do, but he could have accepted his father’s forgiveness, however late it came.

Perhaps when we think of our character’s actions, we ought to think how those actions radiate outward and cause conflict and chaos among the other characters. These are the sins of the father, visited upon the sons.    

Above: David flees Jerusalem after Absalom’s conspiracy. A scene from the Maciejowski Bible, Leaf 45. Also called the Morgan Bible or Crusader Bible, a picture Bible from 13th Century. It was commissioned by Saint King Louis IX of France. Note the Benjaminite stone-thrower and the use of 13th century clothing. There are 46 surviving folios, 43 folios are housed in the Morgan Museum and Library, New York City, New York; 2 folios are housed in the Bibliothèque Nationale de France, Paris, France; 1 folio at the J. Paul Getty Museum, Los Angeles, California; 2 folios are lost to time.

Archetypes of Scripture, Fated Meetings at the Well

The trope is called “meet-cute.” I hate the name of this trope. I can’t really tell you why I don’t like the name, maybe it’s because I really just think it’s romance lampshading under a different name? Either way, I prefer the Chinese/Japanese concept of the red string of fate.

However, I’m not going to focus on the many variants of this specific trope. I’m really looking for the barebones, basic, down-to-the-studs archetype. For the purpose of this essay, we’re going to call this plot device the “fated meeting.”  

The highlighted action of this trope, as we’ll see in the readings, is change. The meeting at the well is a vehicle for alteration of state, whether physical, mental, and/or spiritual.  

There are three fated meetings I want to dissect. Two from the Old Testament Book of Genesis, and the final from the New Testament Gospel of John.

Rebecca at the well

We’ll start with Genesis 24, the Marriage of Isaac and Rebecca. Here’s a quick summary of the events leading up to the fated meeting.

Shortly after the death of his wife, Sarah, Abraham calls a servant to his side and commands him to swear an oath that if he [Abraham] should die, the servant will see to it that his son, Isaac, does not marry a foreign woman. Abraham asks the servant to “go to my country and to my kindred and take a wife for my son Isaac.” [Gen 24:4 RSV-2CE]

After some reasonable negotiations, the servant swears to go to the city of Nahor in Mesopotamia. He takes camels laden with gifts for the future bride and her family. When the servant makes it to the city, he finds a well and makes the camels lay down in the evening. Evening is a time when the women of the city come and fetch water for their households.

The servant then prays:

12 O Lord the God of my master Abraham, meet me to day, I beseech thee, and shew kindness to my master Abraham. 13 Behold I stand nigh the spring of water, and the daughters of the inhabitants of this city will come out to draw water.14 Now, therefore, the maid to whom I shall say: Let down thy pitcher that I may drink: and she shall answer, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let it be the same whom thou hast provided for thy servant Isaac: and by this I shall understand, that thou hast shewn kindness to my master. 15 He had not yet ended these words within himself, and behold Rebecca came out, the daughter of Bathuel.

[DRV 24:12-15]

We get a small description of Rebecca, she is “exceedingly comely” and a “beautiful virgin.” She passes the servant and fills up her water jar. On her way back up the road to home, Abraham’s servant runs out to meet her:

17 And the servant ran to meet her, and said: Give me a little water to drink of thy pitcher. 18 And she answered: Drink, my lord. And quickly she let down the pitcher upon her arm, and gave him drink. 19 And when he had drunk, she said: I will draw water for thy camels also, till they all drink. 20 And pouring out the pitcher into the troughs, she ran back to the well to draw water: and having drawn she gave to all the camels.

[DRV 24:17-20]

Hauling water is hard work, what Rebecca is doing here is extremely generous. Now, certainly, Rebecca sees these camels laden with gifts and, being a perceptive woman, would know that helping this man could be to her benefit. It is possible to be both simultaneously generous and shrewd. There are no other women mentioned in this passage, but we should assume them there and all but Rebecca are passing the servant by.   

Fetching water from the well is a social affair. Women go in groups. It’s a time for gossip and giggles. While the other women move on, heading home before it gets dark, Rebecca fills the trough for the camels to drink. She may even be risking her reputation here, it’s not normal for a woman to be alone with a strange man and in ancient societies, it was a sign of infidelity, regardless if sex occurred or not.

21 But he [the servant] musing beheld her with silence, desirous to know whether the Lord had made his journey prosperous or not. 22 And after that the camels had drunk, the man took out golden earrings, weighing two sicles: and as many bracelets of ten sicles weight.23 And he said to her: Whose daughter art thou? tell me: is there any place in thy father’s house to lodge? 24 And she answered: I am the daughter of Bathuel, the son of Melcha, whom she bore to Nachor. 25 And she said moreover to him: We have good store of both straw and hay, and a large place to lodge in.26 The man bowed himself down, and adored the Lord.

[DRV 24:21-26]

The servant muses, watching her, amazed that he might have fulfilled his master’s wishes. Once he knows who she is, he adores the Lord for his good fortune. Rebecca returns to her home and the servant follows. He is brought into the house and offered food and lodging, but the servant will not eat until he has told his story:

45 And whilst I pondered these things secretly with myself, Rebecca appeared coming with a pitcher, which she carried on her shoulder: and she went down to the well and drew water. And I said to her: Give me a little to drink. 46 And she speedily let down the pitcher from her shoulder, and said to me: Both drink thou, and to thy camels I will give drink. I drank, and she watered the camels.

[DRV 24:45-46]

I want to note here that it’s a common structural trope for the Israelites to repeat things. They only repeat things that are very, very important. That’s why we’re getting a repeated play-by-play of the event we just read.

This is for practical reasons. Most people at the time couldn’t read, repeating something in a slightly different way helps them to remember that which is important. There is also a poetic quality to it, after all, Genesis is a work of Hebrew poetry.

Once the servant finishes his tale, he receives his answer:

50 And Laban and Bathuel answered: The word hath proceeded from the Lord, we cannot speak any other thing to thee but his pleasure. 51 Behold Rebecca is before thee, take her and go thy way, and let her be the wife of thy master’s son, as the Lord hath spoken.

[DRV 24:50-51]

Rejoicing, the servant gives out the gifts to Rebecca, clothing her in fine raiment, silver, and jewels. He gives gifts to Rebecca’s brother, Laban, and her mother. He and the men with him eat and drink and celebrate for three days. After three days they ask to return to Abraham in the land of Canaan. There is resistance from Laban and his mother at first, so they ask Rebecca what she wants. Rebecca says: “I will go.”     

61 So Rebecca and her maids, being set upon camels, followed the man: who with speed returned to his master. 62 At the same time Isaac was walking along the way to the well which is called Of the living and the seeing: for he dwelt in the south country. 63 And he was gone forth to meditate in the field, the day being now well spent: and when he had lifted up his eyes, he saw camels coming afar off.

64 Rebecca also, when she saw Isaac, lighted off the camel, 65 And said to the servant: Who is that man who cometh towards us along the field? And he said to her: That man is my master. But she quickly took her cloak, and covered herself.

66 And the servant told Isaac all that he had done.67 Who brought her into the tent of Sara his mother, and took her to wife: and he loved her so much, that it moderated the sorrow which was occasioned by his mother’s death.

[DRV 24:61-67]

One suspects that during their travels and during the three days spent in Nahor, the servant has been telling Rebecca stories about Isaac. Her willingness to go to Canaan after three days suggest that she is already interested in Isaac and once Isaac hears the stories of Rebecca, he takes her as his wife and “loved her.”

There a lots of women in the Bible, not all of them are strong like Deborah, or generous like Rebecca, many of them are misused by the men around them, all of them are sinners. Many are mentioned in genealogies and then never mentioned again.

Rebecca stands above them all, because Rebecca was loved. Even David did not “love” Bathsheba. Jacob did not love Leah the way he loved Rachel. While disorder always makes its way into the story, it seems that this fated meeting works out as the trope intends.

Jacob meets Rachel

The second fated meeting is between Jacob and Rachel. Jacob is the son of Isaac and Rebecca. He has fled his father and brother at the behest of his mother. Jacob is a cheater. He is his mother’s favorite child while his brother Esau is Isaac’s favorite. Using trickery, (his mother’s idea, she is a shrewd woman), Jacob steals a blessing meant for Esau from his aged and blind father.

This isn’t the first time Jacob has pulled something like this. Jacob and Esau are twins, which is a topic for later discussion, just know that their relationship is contentious to the point that Jacob fears the wrath of his brother and runs away from home. This is, of course, a little micro-example of the hero’s journey, but let’s remain focused on the well.

Jacob journeys into the east, where his mother’s kin dwell. He stops at the well where several shepherds are waiting for the rest of the flocks to be gathered so that they can water the sheep. There is a large stone over the well’s mouth, suggesting that the shepherds must wait for the other shepherds in order to move the stone. Jacob asks them if they know his kinsman, Laban:

“Yes,” they replied, “and here is his daughter Rachel, coming with the sheep.” He [Jacob] said, “Look, it is still broad daylight; it is not time for the animals to be gathered together. Water the sheep, and go, pasture them.” But they said, “We cannot until all the flocks are gathered together, and the stone is rolled from the mouth of the well; then we water the sheep.”

[RSV-CE 29:6-8]

I suspect Jacob hopes to move the shepherds along so that he can speak to Rachel alone. In the end, he rolls the stone out of the way. He then waters the sheep under Rachel’s care.

Then Jacob kissed Rachel, and wept aloud. 12 And Jacob told Rachel that he was her father’s kinsman, and that he was Rebekah’s [Rebecca] son; and she ran and told her father.

13 When Laban heard the news about his sister’s son Jacob, he ran to meet him; he embraced him and kissed him, and brought him to his house. Jacob told Laban all these things, 14 and Laban said to him, “Surely you are my bone and my flesh!” And he stayed with him a month.

[RSV-CE 29:11-14]

Laban offers to give Jacob wages for his work.

16 Now Laban had two daughters; the name of the elder was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. 17 Leah’s eyes were lovely,[b] and Rachel was graceful and beautiful. 18 Jacob loved Rachel; so he said, “I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel.” 19 Laban said, “It is better that I give her to you than that I should give her to any other man; stay with me.” 20 So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her.

[RSV-CE 29:16-20]

Rachel, like Rebecca, is loved. Jacob works diligently for his Uncle, increasing Laban’s wealth and flocks with the expectation that he will be married to Rachel at the end of seven years.

But something happens. It’s Leah, Rachel’s sister, who Jacob ends up married to. In the morning, when the deception is seen, Jacob is outraged.

And Jacob said to Laban, “What is this you have done to me? Did I not serve with you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?” 26 Laban said, “This is not done in our country—giving the younger before the firstborn. 27 Complete the week of this one, and we will give you the other also in return for serving me another seven years.” 28 Jacob did so, and completed her week; then Laban gave him his daughter Rachel as a wife. 29 (Laban gave his maid Bilhah to his daughter Rachel to be her maid.) 30 So Jacob went in to Rachel also, and he loved Rachel more than Leah. He served Laban[c] for another seven years.

[RSV-CE 29:25-30]

What goes around, comes around. But all this trickery is to the determent of the characters involved. Leah is aware of her position in Jacob’s household. Rachel is the favored wife, and there is nothing more painful than knowing that you play the consolation prize in someone else’s love story.

31 When the Lord saw that Leah was unloved, he opened her womb; but Rachel was barren. 32 Leah conceived and bore a son, and she named him Reuben;[d] for she said, “Because the Lord has looked on my affliction; surely now my husband will love me.”

[RSV-CE 29:31-32]

“Surely now my husband will love me.” Meet-cute indeed. Human relationships are messy things. And while the story of Jacob’s immediate family has a happy ending, the rivalry between Leah and Rachel, made possible by Jacob’s clear favoritism, leads to his sons conspiring to murder their brother, Joseph.    

The Samaritan Woman

Our final fated meeting is set in Samaria, near the city of Sichar. Jesus of Nazareth stops at a well dug by Jacob. It’s noon and Jesus is tired and thirsty. There is no one around, he sits by the well, and sees a Samaritan woman, coming, alone in the heat of the day, not the coolness of evening, with the other women.  

A Samaritan woman came to draw water, and Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” (His disciples had gone to the city to buy food.) The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask a drink of me, a woman of Samaria?”

[RSV-CE John 4:7-9]

Its important to know that Samaritans and Jews do not get along. The Samaritans hold to only the first five books of the Hebrew Bible, the Pentateuch, that is Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, and Deuteronomy and exclude the rest of the Prophets. The Jews held that the Samaritans do not properly worship God and the Samaritans held that the Jews don’t properly worship God. The Jews reverence Mount Zion and the Samaritans reverence Mount Gerizim. The Samaritans are the ancestors of foreign settlers in Israel during the Exilic Period. There is no love between these two people.

By the traditions and biases of his people, Jesus shouldn’t be speaking to this woman, let alone asking her for a drink. But Jesus is the hero par excellence. He is on his hero’s journey and he will not be stopped by archaic rules and prejudices. He speaks to her:  

10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.” 11 The woman said to him, “Sir, you have no bucket, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? 12 Are you greater than our ancestor Jacob, who gave us the well, and with his sons and his flocks drank from it?” 13 Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, 14 but those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty. The water that I will give will become in them a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.” 15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I may never be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water.”

[RSV-CE John 4:10-15]

This event concludes with Jesus telling the woman to go and get her husband and come back. She tells him that she doesn’t have a husband and Jesus says “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; for you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband.”

The Samaritan woman came to the well alone. She was alone with a strange man. She’s been living with a man who is not her husband. She is an absolute outcast from her society. And Jesus, being the Messiah, knows this. He speaks to her anyway. A good hero is not moved from his quest, not for anything. At times he may doubt it, he may retreat to the desert for clarity, but he should never step off it—that is the path to villainy.

The woman returns to the city to tell the people what she has been told.

28 Then the woman left her water jar and went back to the city. She said to the people, 29 “Come and see a man who told me everything I have ever done! He cannot be the Messiah,[e] can he?” 30 They left the city and were on their way to him.

[RSV-CE John 4:28-30]

The people see Jesus and listen to him and they believe that he is the long-awaited Messiah. This is in sharp contrast to his own people, who do not believe in him. 

Well, Well, Well

These are three very similar, very different fated meetings. As we view these stories as stories, we see the well as a plot contrivance. Don’t take “plot contrivance” negatively. It’s a device that allows writers to get the plot moving. The well is a meeting place, an ancient singles bar, if you will.

Its no different from a character missing the bus and meeting his future wife at the stop. He’s never late and she’s always late. She’s beautiful, but he can’t stand how she never in a hurry. He’s handsome, but she can’t keep up with his fast-paced lifestyle. For all their disagreements and future conflict, missing that bus was the best thing that ever happened to them.

What makes a plot contrivance effective as a storytelling element is the ultimate symbolism behind the device in use. Let’s continue with the bus metaphor.

Let’s say that the man loves timeliness, he loves to be orderly and well-kept. He is “married” to his work. He’s never missed a day and he’s never been late. But after a hard night of working on his company’s latest project, he fails to properly set his alarm. He lives in a city where having a car is impractical. Missing the bus on the morning of an important work meeting is catastrophic to him.

The woman is laid back and calm. She bounces from job to job because she’s easily bored. She’s currently a waitress so missing the bus isn’t a huge deal, she’s more than happy to move onto the next gig. Missing the bus is just another opportunity for her to roll with the punches. Seeing how uptight the man is, she offers to help him navigate the subway. They get lost instead and it’s the best worst day of the man’s life. There are consequences of course.  

For the man, the bus is a symbol of his fast-pace, highly regimented life. Forgetting to set his alarm shows us how much of his life is consumed in work. In his exhausted state, he fails to set it right. Our leading lady is the catalyst to the disorders that occur with missing such an important work event. She has also become the source of his happiness. The tension between those two symbols—chaos and joy—is the story people want to read.       

So, what’s in a well?   

I don’t think I need to impart the importance of water to a desert people. Men guarded their wells with viciousness—to steal from a tribe’s well was to sign a death warrant. You are literally stealing that tribe’s life, water they need to sustain their flocks and their families. Losing a well in war could destroy a tribe. Cities grew up around wells so that this source of life could be protected by the tribal group.  

Women go together to the well, they share gossip, advice, and jokes. They play matchmaker for each other, discuss their children, their husbands, and family problems. It’s at the well that they go about the natural and normal business of running a household and therefore, civilization.

A well is a place of refreshment, where the tired and thirty rest in the shade and the cool waters. It’s a miniature oasis, a small sip of paradise to come.

Rebecca drew water from the well for the Abraham’s servant. She put aside her family duties to help a stranger, watering his camels and refreshing him. She is generous, but sees the chance to build her own household, increasing the wealth and connections of her family. She is going about the important business of civilization, selflessly providing the sweat of her brow. Before Rebecca was even born, it said to Abraham that God would make a great multitude of him. His descendants would number the stars.

It’s women like Rebecca, who draw out of themselves, the life sustaining water that nourishes a tribe. The well is a plot contrivance, a place to meet, an active symbol of what is occurring in the life of these characters. She’s a girl who goes from her father’s house to work and run her husband’s house. Our man above misses the bus because he’s missing out on life.

Rachel too is going about this important work. She is caring for her father’s flocks and all that entails. Then, Jacob comes and does the same, increasing and caring for Laban’s household and wealth. For his work, he is tricked—but the trick is a direct result of his untrustworthiness. Wells can be deep and even treacherous.

A stone covers the well where Jacob and Rachel met, perhaps to keep people and animals from falling in and drowning? Jacob rolled away the stone only to fall in. Stuck with unhappy, quarrelsome wives, no doubt he felt like he was drowning.

Our man who missed the bus must eventually face the consequences of missing work, marking a massive change in the relationship between the man and the woman. He must count the cost of meeting her.

Then comes Jesus, the Messiah. He knows the depths of every well. He knows a calm surface hides a muddy bottom. The Samaritan woman was alone at the well, she was cast out from society for her sins. He asks her for a drink—breaking all propriety—because she is worth something, even if she doesn’t feel worthy.

The living water he offers her is spiritual. It will clean away everything, even the sins she commits in the future.

Water is a source of life, we drink it, but we bathe in it too. Water makes us clean, it refreshes the hot and tired, when heated it warms the heart. Jesus has come into this woman’s life and given her a taste of that life-giving water; he changes how she sees herself and the world around her.

Our man who missed the bus has a met a wild girl who arouses his love and takes him on an adventure. Work won’t satisfy him ever again.

I said above that I dislike the name “meet-cute.” I still do. But this trope is a powerful one. Meeting in a silly or cute or awkward situation is a plot contrivance, but that is how we get characters to meet. In order to move the plot or get the message across we must get the characters to come together because in meeting they make change.

Tropes are anchors. As readers, we latch on to them, seeking their familiar shapes, but we allow ourselves to be surprised by the colors and the little details that differ with every story. As writers, that is what we must do.

Take a trope, color outside the lines, make it your trope—pretend like no one has ever done this before and own it. We’ve got three radically different meaning out of these Biblical fated meetings, three different changes. Never assume a trope is worthless because it’s been done before. It’s your characters, their personality and circumstances, your details and written style that make the story.

Above: Rebecca et Eliézer. Alexandre Cabanel, 28 September 1823 – 23 January 1889. French Painter. Oil on canvas. In private collection.

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